There is a famous quote which says that “Diamonds are girl’s best friend” but is this really true? Diamonds are one of the most precious stones and it’s very expensive as well. Surely everyone loves diamonds but is it the secret to happiness?
When it comes to proposing, guys now go for diamond engagement rings Brisbane to please their partner. It surely looks beautiful and girls do like it. But not everyone just wants diamonds. Money cannot buy everything, sometimes girls look for different things in a relationship such as equality, understanding and respect. Giving diamonds as gifts is of no use if she feels underprivileged because “she is a woman”.
Making it up
Surely, every couple has fights but what is important is to make it up. It is about putting the ego down and making sure that the other person is alright. There is no point giving various kinds of gifts such as expensive necklace or high quality wedding bands after putting your partner’s self-esteem down, raising hands on her and making her going through domestic violence. Giving gifts isn’t going to cover up for all those beatings and making her feel less of a human all the time.
Its the little things that matter
One doesn’t need to have a pocket full of money to keep a girl happy. It’s the little things that matter such as giving her time. The most important thing one can give is their time. Even showing up to her house after a long fight shows that you value the person more than the ego. Some couples have a motto where “no one goes to bed angry” no matter how nasty the fight was. So it’s definitely not just about diamonds. They will always be a show piece and never be a symbol of showing love or being happy in a relationship.
Give some moral support
In almost all the cultures it’s the girl who leaves her house and lives with the guy. While in the West the couple move out from their parents and live on their own, in some of the Asian countries such as India the girl lives with the boy and his family. So it’s important to stand up for the partner. She leaves her family, comfort zone to set up a new life with her partner. It is the guy’s duty to stand up for her when things go wrong this not only shows love between the couple but also shows how strong their bond is.As long as the couple makes time for each other, never get tired of showing love and make it up after every fight the partner ends up being the girl’s best friend and not her diamonds!